Let’s be honest: most of us were taught to treat our pussy like a secret, a problem or a thing to be polite about. At Shame LESS Society, we say: ENOUGH of that bullshit. It’s time to throw her the most glorious party she has ever seen.

This isn’t a “self-love workshop”: this is 4 hours of pure reclamation, shame killing, and pleasure rebellion drenched in sisterhood. A full-body YES to the most underrated goddess in the room. If your pussy could RSVP, she already would have.

Inspired by Mama Gena’s Pussy: A Reclamation and infused with the signature magic of DEVOTION. Forget your average 5 frantic minutes of self-pleasure before bed and let your pussy lead the way to unapologetic reclamation.

What to expect:

• Cliteracy 101: the education you should have gotten at 12, but didn’t. Pleasure intelligence for pussy.
• Swamping: this is where we let your powerful, beautiful anger, grief and frustration move through your body instead of staying in it.
• Vulva mapping + mirror magic: meet your pussy like you´d meet a Goddess.
• Pussy breathing: the kind of breathwork that no yoga teacher would dare guide you through.
• Collective reframing: say the shit you´ve never said out loud and be witnessed in sisterhood.
• Self-devotion: a guided self-pleasure journey through sensation, pleasure and worship (because you don´t deserve anything less).

This is for you if:

• You’ve ever felt disconnected, ashamed, insecure or just “meh” about your pussy.
• You were taught to hide, silence or forget this part of yourself.
• Your pleasure feels complicated, boring or practically mythical.
• You want to feel confident and plugged back into your own erotic power.
• You crave being in a room full of badass vulva-owners cheering for your liberation.

If you´ve been dreaming of a space where you can rant and brag, hold and be held, laugh and cry, and be unapologetically yourself… this is it.

What to bring

• Comfortable clothes to arrive in + an optional sexier outfit for the devotion ritual (whatever makes you feel sexy — no rules here).
• Nudity is optional but warmly welcomed.
• Food of your choice to share in the closing potluck integration.

Showers, fresh towels, tea, and fruit will be waiting for you. All you really need to bring is your gorgeous self.

About the Experience

While the focus is entirely on you — your body, your pleasure, your challenges — the group container becomes the amplifier.

A room full of humans on the same path raises the energy, mirrors your courage, and makes the journey safer and more transformative than going it alone.

Here, you’re both solo and shamelessly held by your community.

Why this matters

Because pussy shame runs deep. Because most vulva owners have never received permission to explore, express or celebrate their erotic truth. Because when your pussy awakens, your confidence, intuition, boundaries and joy awaken with her. Your pussy is more than just an organ: she is your revolution. This workshop is her reclamation.

About the Facilitator

Valentine Blue is a certified sex coach and solo lifestyle mentor with nearly a decade of experience in sexual health and wellness.

Also known as the Shame LESS Society’s “blue fairy” and volunteer care team lead, Valentine’s passion lies in guiding people into raw self-discovery and shameless empowerment.

With a background in harm reduction, sex-work advocacy, and coaching, Blue blends playfulness with depth — crafting transformative journeys where curiosity is the only entry ticket.