FAQ
Is a Shame LESS Society event similar to a swinger club?
No, we strongly believe in differentiating ourselves from swinger clubs. We are a sensual community that views physical intimacy as one way of expressing a connection between consenting adults. Our playful events revolve around connecting likeminded, hedonistic individuals, and these connections can take various forms.
Are your events "orgies"?
No, our events are not orgies. However, we don't restrict consensual group activities.
How do you create a safe space at your events?
We ensure safety through various measures, including community guidelines and sexual education for staff and members, a stringent participant selection process, an awareness team, communication officers, medical personnel, and security personnel.
Is the membership free?
Currently, membership is free, but we charge for events due to the logistical requirements of organizing such events. We've also created a diverse volunteer program for those who share our vision and ethics and want to support us on our mission, but can't afford the ticket price. Additionally, our non-profit organization hosts donation-based and free educational events.
How do I apply for membership or volunteer at Shame LESS Society?
Head over to our homepage and click on the "Apply Now" button. The questionnaire is designed to ensure that all members are aligned with our values and guidelines. The application process takes about 5 to 15 minutes, depending on how much you are willing to share.
What is the difference between a member and a volunteer?
Members have full access to events and services, including exclusive content like blogs and newsletters. Volunteers are also members who contribute to our mission by performing various roles in preparation and during events. In exchange for their time and expertise, volunteers can attend events without fees and enjoy volunteer-exclusive benefits and events.
How do you select members and volunteers?
To ensure a safe space for all, we've developed a personalized verification process. After reading our member guidelines and applying, we review detailed applications to understand applicants interests and values. Being referred by another member is helpful. We also suggest a Zoom call to build a strong community foundation and establish a safe space. Once we feel there's a good match, you'll receive confirmation of your free membership or be introduced to team leads if you're joining as a volunteer.
What do you do with my data? How secure is it?
Privacy is important to us. We process your data in accordance with the EU General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR) and the Federal Data Protection Act (BDSG). Detailed information can be found in our privacy policy .
What is the long-term goal of Shame LESS Society?
- We aim to create a transformative space for free-spirited, educated, and artistic individuals, host Europe's finest hedonistic gatherings, promote ethical pleasure without shame, and advocate for regular and accessible STD testing and sexual and sensual freedom.
- Our mission is to foster conscious hedonistic experiences, facilitate communal healing within a supportive community, empower members through education and shared experiences, and cultivate self-acceptance, love, personal growth, and open communication.
Can I attend events if I'm new to this kind of community or lifestyle?
Yes, our events are designed to provide a softer introduction compared to fetish or swinger clubs, but also offer a lot of opportunity for more experienced attendees.
In which countries do you host your events?
So far, we've organized getaways, and gatherings and soirées in Germany and Portugal. We plan to expand to the Netherlands and Czech Republic in the months to come.
How regularly do you host your events?
Currently, we plan to host quarterly events in Lisbon and annual events in other countries. The Shame LESS Society is a rapidly growing community, but we prioritize event quality over frequency. Members are notified when event dates are released.
What is the dresscode at your event?
Our dress code encourages playful, colorful, kinky, and roleplay attire. Feel free to express your fantasy while being comfortable. Everyday standard attire is not allowed.
Check out our dress-code inspiration for more: Dresscode
What is your code of ethics?
Our code of ethics includes principles such as beneficence, non-maleficence, autonomy, justice, truth-telling, and promise-keeping.
Check out our community guidelines for more: Commuity Guidelines
Do I have to be non-monogamous or kinky to participate in your events?
No, you don't need to identify as non-monogamous or kinky to attend.
Are there age restrictions for your events?
All participants must be of legal age.
What happens if someone violates your community guidelines during an event?
Violations may result in the removal of the member from the event and possible revocation of their member status.
Can I bring a partner or guest to your events, or are they for members only?
No, all attendees must be registered members to ensure a safe space and group accountability.
How do you handle concerns related to privacy and discretion for your members?
We prioritize member privacy and discretion, while acknowledging the open nature of our community. If you can’t be associated with our events, reconsider you application.
Am I required to provide an STD test before participating in events?
While sexual acts are not the primary focus of our events, there's no mandatory STD test required. However, we strongly encourage regular testing and open conversations with other participants before any physical interaction.
Are you LGBTQ+ friendly?
Absolutely, we welcome everybody, regardless of color, sexuality, or gender.